Monday, November 2, 2009

Monday...yay!

I really don't have much to say, but I did want to post. This past weekend was full of drunken antics, none involving Stalker or any other man for that matter. It was a full on girls weekend, and a good one at that!

I did hear from Stalker via text throughout the day on Saturday. Then Sunday came....and nothing. I texted him Sunday night and asked, "Are you still alive?", as it's unusual not to hear from him at some point during the day. He responded an hour and a half later with "just leaving (insert name of state where 'ex' now lives)". Interesting...I had no clue he was taking a trip this weekend. The cards will fall where they will...

6 comments:

The Angel and Demon Within said...

Have they spent a weekend apart yet? Two people who spend that much time driving/flying aren't ready to end things.

How long before you flip that switch...

Good luck Honey!

jo said...

interesting indeed. i think you guys do need to have a proper talk bout all this again...

Dimplz said...

It seems he didn't tell you because he sees your arrangement as one where you both keep your lives outside of what you do separate. I know everyone thinks you should tell him how you feel but my belief is that it won't change anything. If it does, at best you will have a man who is not going to let his other woman go because he doesn't want to. I don't believe in all of the "things" that people say. There will always be a reason for someone not to let someone else go, but when a man wants to be out of a relationship, he will be out. I have had many breakups and I am not the kind of person who makes people run screaming. On the contrary, I may be too laid back. I am sure if you plan on telling him, it's because you have already prepared for the worst, and either way, it won't be devastating to your life. Crushing, yes. But you are over 30 and know what to expect. Good luck either way. I hope it works out for the best.

The Angel and Demon Within said...

Sane, you need to let your readers know that he is asking about what you do, where you go, who you are with. I think that bit of information shines some light into his true feelings.

However, I am feeling like he is liking having the old relationship along with the new. Turning into a little player maybe? If you aren't feeling a bit used already you will be soon...

If he doesn't make up his mind before long you might just make it up for him. Am I right?

He'll be just another one of the fools you have dated that couldn't or wouldn't take that next step and you end up breaking it off. Another one that 3 months to a year from now will come back wishing you'd give him another shot. We all know how those end up turning out.

I hope he is smart enough to know what he will be giving up if he lets you slip away.

SaneAndSingle said...

Yes, he does ask questions about what I'm doing. He points out guys who look at me and talks about "all my men". I'm not sure if he is jealous or is trying to get me to notice other men.

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

I'd guess he's being slightly passing aggressive with his comments, and it also allows him to rationalize still boning (or at least being with) his ex.