Saturday, November 7, 2009

"The Talk" Follow-up

Thursday after "the talk" I didn't hear too much from Stalker. We didn't engage in our usual text convo during the work day. We did exchange a couple texts trying to decide what we were doing for dinner. So when I was driving home, I oh-so-surprised to receive this:

k. I stay the night tonight. maybe wine and something quick and easy after softball game.

I really thought he would pull away to let all my feelings and other babble marinate and to think on things. So I picked up a rotisserie chicken and some sides from the local grocery along with some wine. The side dishes had just been completed when Stalker arrived at my place in softball uniform, laden with his over-night necessities. He didn't have a hand free to hug me, so instead he kissed me hello. Well, that was different! Once settled, we made our plates, put in a DVD and got cozy on the couch. After eating, Stalker took a quick shower. We were watching LOTR, and he has seen it a dozen times. Once he returned to the couch, he took my feet in his lap and commenced to rubbing. The wine went to my head and I couldn't make it through the movie, so we decided to hit the sheets. We discussed my upcoming move next month, as we were getting ready for bed. He told me that there was no need to hire movers, and that he and his brother would do it if I rented the truck. Again, I was caught by surprise! Not only did he commit to doing something for me, but I also get to meet a family member!? I thought, "Wow! Now we're getting somewhere!"

I wasn't too tired for some sensual nookie! Again, it was amazing and left us both speechless. We fell asleep entwined and woke the same way when the alarm went off. Of course, I had to have more before work. It's too good, and I'm enjoying it while I have it. He left for work before I did, as he was going by Verizon to get his anticipated Droid phone. He assured me that I would receive the very first text from his fantasy phone. He again kissed and hugged me goodbye and was on his way.

7 comments:

The Angel and Demon Within said...

Wow, he came back to stay the night after the talk! Is that his passive way of saying he wants a relationship with you? Logic would say that if he had been freaked out he would have avoided you for a few days.

Hmmm, and the plot thickens....

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

Hmmm....that's pretty surprising.

Dimplz said...

Has he addressed what you actually said, or are you thinking because he showed up that he is in line with your feelings? I am thinking he doesn't want you to feel used. I am not trying to be negative here, but if he hasn't told you outright that he wants what you want, you have to assume that he's still just going with the flow because you said you still wanted to continue seeing him. I mean these are all nice things, but I can tell you, I knew a guy's entire family, went to family functions, and they didn't tell me the whole time he had a woman who was pregnant. Color me surprised. Even after, they married, unbeknownst to me, I was welcome in their home. Sometimes, family doesn't know about the gf either or doesn't involve themselves. Just saying.

jo said...

wow that was pretty relationshippy. but you guys probably still do need to talk bout it properly though.

Dater at Large said...

Sounds like progress! But I agree with Jo... an actual talk is in your future. Good Luck!

SaneAndSingle said...

There will be a talk. We are supposed to get together again tomorrow night. I just didn't want to hit him over the head with as he was leaving for work, just to hit him over the head again as soon as he came back.

Jenny DB said...

hmm i am now feeling like i shouldve caught up on your more recent posts. i will refrain from further commenting until such time;)