Sunday, September 7, 2008

Making Up!

Maybe I blogged too soon! The LD Man finally called. He actually called and left a message a couple hours after my last blog, but we didn't get a chance to speak until today after playing a little phone tag. He addressed some of my insecurities and made me feel much better about things between us. So there is one aspect of my life that's looking up. Now if only I can divorce Mr. Mortgage and start a new career!


AMY said...


Non Sequitur Chica said...

YAY! His ears must have been ringing....does that work with blogging about someone too? ;-)

CurvyGurl said...

Great! I was concerned about ya so I'm glad he called :). Have a fab week!

SaneAndSingle said...

Thanks for your support everyone! Most of you were right. He was having a rough time with the loss of his friend, and he had to deal with it in his own way. It's all about learning to communicate with one another.

Mr. Mortgage is still a pain in my ass!

The Angel and Demon Within said...

I'm glad... One less worry would do us all well.

Give Mr. Mortgage a break; he has only just got his shipping orders this past week. He took 10 months for me to be able to kick him to the curb! Just be glad you aren't having to pay him and Mr. Rent at the same time. Now that's a bitch!

You need to talk LD into visiting you durning fall break. That way all you have to do is to come up with the money to feed him. Does he like ramen? :)

jo said...

oh yay i'm so happy for you. not bout your "marriage" to mr. mortgage but bout LD man.

so at the risk of being nosy, how did he address some of your insecurities?

lisaq said...

Yay! Glad things are looking up!

Cheryl said...

Love it! Great to see the happy face!!

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

I think you may need to invest in a, "Jump To Conclusions" Mat!

OG, The Original Glamazon said...

LOL! I didn't think it was much to worry about but I know how years of having the other shoe to drop can make you over prepare yourself for what you view as the inevitable. So I was just silent on the matter.

It took me a minute to just start living my relationship life like the rest of my life, which is live in the now.

So stop worrying about when it will end and just enjoy it while its here, otherwise you may miss it!!

Now, I should just break out into break up to make up...*lol*

I'm glad he settled some of those fears and insecurities doesn't that feel good?


SaneAndSingle said...

Thanks for the support everyone.

Well OG, I think I was upset about so much more than the man calling. It had been well over a week since we had spoken when we speak almost everyday usually. So many things went through my head. I was worried about him, along with my other issues going on in other realms of life. Since this is my dating blog, I don't dig too deeply into those though! ;)

Oh and PMS probably played a big part in my whiney-ness!

SaneAndSingle said...

Jo...I had expressed some of my fears about him, myself and life in general to him in an email. He simply answered those questions.

I shared a horror story about online dating that I had just heard...that alone made my imagination go wild. He just calmed me down really. It's hard to explain and I don't want to go into details out of respect for my friend who was the online dating victim.

Roxy said...

I'm glad he called and you both had a talk to address your insecurities.

While I don't want to be a downer, a bit of advice:

Take this as a lesson to work on your insecurities and yourself so that happiness doesn't depend on attention from a man.

I see a lot of women do this (myself included).

Roxy said...

also, concerning the horror story... is there a chance you could keep your friend anonymous and share it?

You and your friend would be helping us out in the dating world avoid the situation and stay safe.

SaneAndSingle said...


I don't really let my happiness depend on a man so much. I wouldn't be single if that was the case, as I have options to fill that need. I was disappointed though, as anyone would have been I think if she thought she had made a good friend. I have been going through many other issues in other realms of my life. Since those aren't the focus of my blog, I don't share those problems here. He has become kind of a confidante, more so than just a romantic interest. My unhappiness stems from other areas also. I've been having an "if it can go wrong, it will go wrong" kind of couple months. So not hearing from him (when he is usually the one who listens to my venting)was icing on the cake!

As for the online dating horror story, I'll see what I can do! :)