So the FWB and I tried to date. We really did. We are both very busy professionals, and often our schedules conflicted. Every time we tried to plan a date, it was postponed or canceled altogether. Obviously if two people who are animalistically attracted to one another can't get together before 11:00 PM, guess what becomes the focal point of that relationship??? Yep, good old fashioned, sweaty, hot, freaky, screaming for our Savior SEX!! Mmmm mmmm good...
I was hooked! Then one day, after a couple months, it happened. He was to be at my place about 9:30 one Wednesday night. I was showered, shaved, groomed in all the right places, and smelling sweet by 9:00 PM. Ten o'clock rolled around, and I hadn't heard from him yet. I called....voicemail. I texted....no response! This man finally called me back around 11:30 PM, saying " Do you still want me to come over? I fell asleep and just woke up." Oh wow...I felt so warm and fuzzy...NOT!! I was nice and told him to get some rest, and we would reschedule for the weekend or something.
Weeks go by and we continue "dating" (ahem...fucking), although not nearly as often as I would have liked. I have the sex drive of an 18 year old boy....I want it often...as often as I can get it. We discussed the frequency of our "dates", and he agreed to "date" me more often. And then it happened...again....except this time? He fucking just FORGOT about our "date." That hurt...
A few days later, after a bottle of Shiraz, I cursed, screamed, and cried into the phone at him, expressing my hurt and anger over him forgetting about me and the fact that all we did was fuck....no real dates...just fucking! I wanted...I needed more.
6 comments:
oh man that sucks! i guess this guy is better off as a FWB than a potential bf...
I'd rather use my "tools." They always show up when I need them! Why not act like a male and have several FWBs to fill your needs. If your lucky you might come across one who is real dating material... I've told you before; you can always be my "sister wife!" LOL I love my BFF!
Ugh...been there, done that, worn the t-shirt. Never, ever again for me. I'm sick to death of learning lessons the hard way!
The problem with FWB is that one person goes and fucks it up. EVERY.TIME. It is like death and taxes. I prefer FWB because of my current professional demands, and it seems to be more work than just having random sex with random people.
ps. I just found your blog (I think through Charming but Single? or one of the other blogs I read)
I think you are right about the FWB. It is more difficult than sleeping with random folks.
This guy originally wasn't supposed to be an FWB though. Stay tuned. There's more to come.
hmmm, yuck. what a situation.
been there. has never worked out for me if i had intentions of more but if it started off as all sex and nothin but the sex. unless i wanted it that way from the beginning. which is getting rarer these days. both the sex and the only wanting that. (and I have that crazy sex drive too...stupid sex drive)
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