After my drunken fit on the phone with the FWB, he told me he understood and that he would try harder, that he wanted to be there for me, and see what we could have together. Um...yeah. That lasted all of about 3 weeks.
He finally called me one night and told me that he didn't think he could give me what I wanted or deserved. He wasn't "in a place in life" to allow him to have a relationship. Um...yeah...think I had figured that out already!
We didn't talk too much and didn't see one another for a about a month. Then one day he sent me a text, saying hello and that he missed me. Ugh...I fell for it. Of course, he still couldn't handle a relationship. So there's the story of the FWB. We continued to have sensational sexual relations for the next 4-5 months. It went no where. It got old. I'm too old for this. I need more of a connection. He still says hi occasionally, hoping for some ass. *sigh* This is why I'm not trying on the celibacy thing for a fit.
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i hate it when guys say things like they aren't "in a place in life" to have a relationship. usually i think that's just bull. i think that if he really liked me, he would be in a place in life to have a relationship. they might as well come right out and say that they're only interested in a booty call.
Ugh...I so hear you. My last FWB still tries too. Only he's dumb enough to try to touch my a$$ instead of just saying hello...not that either will get him what he wants. No more of that crap for me. I'm done. Stick a fork in me.
I wonder if there shouldn't be some FWB code of conduct or something...
I agree jo. If someone is really into you, they will make time for you. They will at least make that effort.
Lisa...I'm soooo done with it. As a matter of fact, he texted me yesterday asking why he hasn't heard from me. He can't even pick up the phone...ugh.
Yes, I think maybe that should be a blog one day...the FWB Code of Conduct! LOL
Hmmm...the final chapter has given me a new perspective on the FWB thing (ok...I chose to ignore the not so pretty aspects). Sounds like the costs outweigh the benefits. Guess, it's not wise to proceed with my intention to establish an 'arrangement'. Although...the Code of Conduct may change my mind ;). Love your blog!
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