Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Storm is over...

That downpour of men has turned to a drizzle. Oh, they are all still hanging around, but they aren't as anxious to see as they were last week.

I still haven't caught up with Hot Stuff again. He seems to be a last minute guy. You know, the guy that calls you up the moment he wants to see you, instead of making plans ahead of time. So he keeps calling, and I keep having other plans!

I went out with KH again on Saturday. We had a good time. It wasn't as comfortable as the first date, for some reason. I'm not sure why. I do know he hogs the seat in the movie theater. He couldn't even share the damn arm rest, and I felt like he took up half my seat along with his own. I'm getting the sense that he isn't as nice as he seemed to be at first. Last week, he was constantly calling and sending texts, telling me how excited he was about me and how he was digging me. This week, not so much! I have spoken to him, but he isn't as sensitive and nice as he was at first. I'm in the process of moving, hence I've been packing for days. When I told him how tired and busy I am, he said, "Well, you chose to move." He has been whining because I don't have a lot of time to hang out, but yet, he hasn't offered to help me out either! If I had a little help, I'd have a little more time! LOL

I met up with City Boy for dinner and a movie on Sunday. Our original plans were for Friday, but it didn't work out. We had a pretty good time. His pics online don't do him justice....much nicer looking in person! Although, he isn't the brightest crayon in the box! He even told me that I'm smarter than he is! WTF?? Anyway, he leaves town tomorrow, so we may meet for a drink later tonight.

FWB called again Sunday, while I was out with City Boy. I didn't return his phone call until today (2 days later!). Of course, he didn't answer.

I'm supposed to hang with KH on New Year's Eve, but I'm not sure how I'm feeling about that right now. I was going to take him to the young coworker's party, but my gay boyfriend is also having a get together. Maybe it's the stress of the move and all...

8 comments:

CurvyGurl said...

Hey girlie! LOL @ City Boy not being the brightest crayon in the box.

Wonder what the heck has KH's boxers in a bunch. He may be dealing with something, but he doesn't have to be so snippy...not giving him an easy out.

SaneAndSingle said...

I don't know what KH's deal is. He seemed disappointed that I couldn't hang out all day and night on Saturday, but I really did have a lot to take care of. I'm packing to move, and I'm one of those people who won't rest until I've finished what I've started!

And really, aren't we ALL going through something? If we waited until everyone was free and clear of issues, then there would never be friendships and/or relationships!

CurvyGurl said...

You're right about that. Have a great move and a happy new year!

jo said...

aww man i'm disappointed with your guys. what's up with guys?

have a happy new year!

lisaq said...

Ugh...KH sounds like a spoiled little boy who gets pissy if he doesn't get his way. Ewww...not attractive. As for City Boy, a pretty boy who's not too bright is fun for awhile, but I always find I get bored with them rather quickly. Maybe Hot Stuff will get his crap together and that will be the better bet! Meantime, have a Happy New Year's girl. Maybe '09 will be our year! ;)

Rebecca said...

How did your last date with City Boy, go? Does he still seem a bit short in the intellegence department? It's not a good thing, I suppose, if you are thinking long term (although, it's my experience that a man finds a woman's mind extremely sexy). But, if he's better looking in person, at least you could have a harmless hook-up each time he comes to town ;) just kidding....

Good luck to you. Don't fret. Men come in cycles, kind of like the seasons. You'll see them again....some in waves, and some just one at a time.

Happy New Year! Here's to better choices in 2009!

Kofi Bofah said...

I am new here - and need to catch up before I can weigh in.

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

Well....that was quick!