I'd have no luck at all. I have decided that RM is a controlling, narcissistic, arrogant bastard. I know you're thinking, "What the hell took you so long to figure that out?" I guess I just had to learn the good old-fashioned way....that would be the HARD way! Again, we had a text convo a few days ago, during which he wanted to share his views on where he stood on relationships (not that it really mattered to me). He was explaining that he never asked about other guys because of his "confidence". When I asked what he meant, I received this response.
RM: If I was ready 4 a relationship, u would be w/me. Period. That being said, he got u. I will continue my quest 4 another homie, lover, friend as u call it lol
That surpasses confidence into the area of arrogance! Really?? I wanted to say "You aren't that damn hot motherfucker!" But I bit my tongue (uh, texting finger??) and just gave him a "Is that right?" instead. He went on to tell me that he just wasn't ready to jump right into a relationship, to which I responded, "I never asked you to." This next text was so fucking cheesy, I had to end all communication!
RM: Well drop the zero. Get w/a hero & meet me ur place tomorrow. Do some makin' up & movin' forward! How bout all day & night lovin'. Not fuckin' as u call it.
All I could do is laugh at that one! As for me calling it fucking, yeah I do! I call it what it is. If it's just fucking, that's exactly what I call it!
As for MatchMan, last Sunday night was the night for consummation. Yep, we did the dirty and it was goooood. Too bad he went to jail Tuesday afternoon! Yeah, you read that right, no need to back up. MatchMan is in jail for the next 30 days. I would rather not get into why, because that is his personal business. He isn't some hardened murderer or anything. He did make some mistakes that anyone could have fallen victim to. That is all I'm going to say about it. So yeah, we officially had the talk and became exclusive on Sunday night, and by Tuesday night, he was locked up. What tangled webs, huh?