Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Rough Day on FB

So, I logged into FB on my laptop today, instead of my usual glance at my FB app on my BlackBerry. What's the number one story on my news feed??? The FIRST thing I see?? FWB is in a relationship. Nice...yay! Just a few weeks ago, my ex (whom I've never discussed here actually) added me as a friend there. He got married last year! Another yay! You do realize these yays are sarcastic, right? Just in case some of you are just now tuning into my blog and don't know me yet, I thought I should state the obvious (obvious, that is, if you know me).

And if that wasn't enough to make my insides turn inside out, I went to the profile of one of my "best friends" to leave a comment and found she had deleted me as a FB friend! Does that mean I'm no longer her real life friend? I know I forgot to call her back the other day, but I did text her a couple days ago to get no response. Could that cause the end of a friendship?

It all just hurt so badly...

10 comments:

CurvyGurl ♥ said...

Wow, that's odd. I know that had to be hurtful to notice, hopefully it was an innocent mistake. Hang in there, suga!

The Angel and Demon Within said...

You know...some days you just have to laugh! Beats crying. :) I'm sure your friend just had a glitch and didn't really delet you on purpose. Who can resist your bright and cherry self.

StudentOfLife said...

Who is she and where does she live? I'll beat her ass for ya! :-D See? I'd never delete you! Shoot... I enjoy your status messages too much! hee hee!

I'm sorry you were hurt by finding that info. out. I know it's more the fact that they continue to play games with you and lie (and believe they'll get away with it) than the fact that they're in relationships. I say you're better off. Let the women who are with them deal with their b.s.

I love ya, girl, and miss you!!

Non Sequitur Chica said...

My boyfriend from college added me as a friend on FB for all of a week. We caught up on each other's lives and then he said that he had to delete me because of his wife. Uhhhh okay. My other ex also deleted me as a friend b/c I got engaged and "he couldn't handle it anymore" and didn't feel that we were close. *shrugs* They are exes for a reason...I would have liked to stay FB friends with them simply because I am nosy!

And I would call your best friend and see what's going on....

jo said...

ouch! it's always hard to find out that the guys in your past are now in relationships / married.

as for your best friend deleting you... i have it on good authority that facebook sometimes has glitches. my friend thought her friend deleted her and she was pretty upset bout it until she waited a few days and checked back and realised that it was just facebook acting up and she wasn't deleted afterall. so check back again. if not, i guess talk to your best friend. maybe she suddenly deleted her whole profile to avoid some stalker.

firstdateonlyproject said...

There is literally nothing worse that facebook relationship statuses. That's how I found out that my ex had cheated on me and dumped me for the new girl. Awesome.

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

FB can be a cruel reminder of failed relationships. It sneaks up on me every once in awhile.

Lilyflower said...

Psh, I do get a bit confused with this whole thing on FB. If someone deletes me as their FB friend, does it mean we're no longer friends in real life? Or are they just mad at us? Or did they write something and don't want us to read it?? Ok, maybe I do overreact a little bit. Breathe in, breathe out. Ok.

And I can totally sympathize with you! I hate it when I see someone's on a relationship on FB. Not that I'm not happy for them, it's just that stupid fear of someday being the only single person in the whole world... yeah.

Megs said...

I believe Facebook is a gateway drug to feeling bad about yourself. Of course I go on it all the time and then it leads to me wanting to pull my hair out. There is just to much information. I hope everything is getting better for you.

Roxy said...

i've been accidentally deleted as a friend before. Try adding her again. maybe that will be the catalyst to talk if she has something to say.

As for FWB and the Ex... I'm sorry that they shoved their love lives in your face, but this should be motivation to get your status changed too!

Get out there and have fun, then one of those guys will turn into more.