that Stalker is truly an asshole! Remember how he told me that he and his brother would move me? The move that is scheduled for two weeks from now? Well, tonight when he came by to get his Wii that I picked up for him, he informed me (quite casually) that he would be out of town that weekend. Bet we can all guess where he will be and with whom he will be. Guess we can't even be friends, because I would never leave a friend hanging like that so close to the big day...
It just amazes me that someone who seemed so kind and giving and positive turned out to be such a cold uncaring soul.
So now I have the pleasure of coming up with money to pay movers a few days before Christmas. Fanfuckingtabulous...
16 comments:
that's quite asshole-ish of him to leave you hanging like that so close to moving day. but i suppose it's best that you know now what priority you have in his life. so how is this going to affect your "friendship" with him?
What "friendship"? Friends don't treat one another that way.
Yep... A true Jack Ass! You talked to him several times about helping you move. You even commented once that he would most likely have something come up at the last minute and he reinsured you that he would be there.
I still don't get why he keeps talking to you about babies and about being pregnate. I swear he has two sides.
What is up with him showing up at your house and getting in bed with you at 3 a.m.? Yeah, that's what friends do...
Time to kick his ass on out the door. He can't make up his mind so you will have to do it for him. You are worth sooooo much more than being his "fill-in." He may not describe his relationship with you as that but he clearly put you last every time.
I'm sorry for things not working out; however, I'm you know for sure now what to expect.
LOL! I love how you include all the details that I forget to blog about!
The thing that pisses me off the most was the fact that he didn't even seem to feel badly that he is putting me out hundreds of dollars I didn't think I'd have to spend. No apology for letting me down or anything...
Unfortunately he lived up to his very low expectations. You pretty much rewarded him with sex and a Wii* for him being an ass. You really need to stop talking to him, as you deserve much better.
*if he hasn't paid you back yet.
Oh I got my money for the Wii! He wouldn't have walked out with it otherwise! I'm nice but not that damn nice! As for the sex, I don't really see it as a reward for him so much. Its not like I didn't want it too. Hell, apparently that is the best thing about him. At least I got something good out of him!
LOL
i don't know what i enjoy the most, your blog or the fact that you and your homegirl (angel & demon) sound like me and my homegirls in the comments!
LMAO
i caught her spilling your tea.....about the 3am visit...LMAO...
that was cute!
Hey crys. I wanna read your blog too! But it won't let me in because I haven't been invited! :-(
LOL ;)
I totally agree with TR. You did reward him, whether you think you did or not. Even if he did pay. He got his Wii, didn't have to drive to the store, and got sex, which is an intrinsically rewarding experience.
In life, I believe we get what we demand-- and by "demand" I do not necessarily mean an outright declaration of what we want and what we don't want. It can be as subtle as not reinforcing behaviors we don't like, and seeking out (male) behaviors that we do like. So, we get what we demand, and when we demand less, we get less. That is a situation of our own making.
WELL Hello!!! Just stoppin by to let you know I left you some 'Blog Bling' at So Say I :)
Anonymous- I would have picked up the Wii for anyone that I knew would pay me back. We did not have sex when he came to get the Wii. We ate the dinner that he stopped and bought for the two of us on his way over. until the last few weeks Stalker went out of his way to get food, medicine, and various other things for me. So I do believe we were both rewarded up to a certain point. Otherwise I would never have developed feelings. Remember this began as us using one another for sex.
BTW thanks for the basic psychology lesson! Been there and got the degree!
Im glad you have Angel/Demon to tell it like it is!! hang in there
Yeah, he is a major jerk! Dump him and find someonelse that would be happy to put you first.
This pisses me off bc I just recently ran into a situation similar to this. Beyond him being an asshole...It's just so fucking inconsiderate.
I feel very passionate about this because time is money. Not only is he wasting your time, but now your money is involved. Oh No...He needs to be dismissed ASAP...but I know how that goes to. Somethings are easier said than done.
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